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ダメ社会人認定?!寝坊しちゃったらどーしましょ?

仕事

11万部を超えるベストセラー『入社1年目の教科書』(ダイヤモンド社)に次のような章があります。「何があっても遅刻はするな」。この本の著者、ライフネット生命保険株式会社社長の岩瀬大輔さんは、こう語っています。「社会人として当たり前のことを、ちゃんとやれる人物か見られている」ここが肝心とのことです。

「でも、もし寝坊で遅刻してしまったら・・・」。今回は「社会人の寝坊」に関してじっくり考察していきます。

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お寝坊さんのきもち・・・

仕事

癖になってるヒトもそうじゃないヒトも、「寝坊」って、一度は経験ありますよね。といっても、天気の良いお休みの日の朝寝坊はとっても気持ちイイから、「寝坊」について良いイメージを抱いている方もいらっしゃるかもしれません。

そういえば、小さな頃、家でお母さんに「ちょっと~もう○○(←あなたの名前)起きなさぁい。いつまで寝てるの~ほら学校に遅れるわよ!」なんて言われたこと、ありますよね。え、今も言われてます?

そうは言っても、社会人にとって「寝坊」はタブー。禁句。ダメ!絶対!!・・・というのが、常識です・・・。え、うちの会社、遅刻の常習犯いるよ、という声も聞こえてきそうですが。遅刻の理由が「寝坊」とは、やっぱり言いにくいですよね。

なんでこんな時間!?誰もいない部屋で叫びバタバタ着替える悪夢の数分間

寝坊した時の気持ちの悪さは、みなさん共通のものがあると思います。「目覚まし時計必需品派」も「自然体でなぜかぱっちり、きりっと起きる派」も、朝はいつも同じような時間に起きて、毎朝同じような行動パターンをたどって出勤します。

ところが。うっかり寝坊なんてしちゃったら。時計の針の示す時間を確認して愕然。ひとり暮らしのヒトなんかは、ペットの猫しかいない部屋で、きゃーきゃー叫びながら、ばたばたと着替えることになります。集中しないとすぐフリーズしそうな頭をフル回転させて、いかに早く家を出るかのプランをはじき出して行動します。まさに悪夢の数分間です。「なんで~?」という言葉が頭の中にぐるぐるしてます。あるある!ですよね。

代表的な本当の理由は何でしょう?「最近、忙しかったから?」

「一体なんで寝坊なんてしちゃったんだろー」。ダメ社会人の烙印となる「寝坊で遅刻」。もう後悔しても仕方が無いのに、ついつい反芻。自問自答してしまいます。そうですね。あなたはここ最近、残業続きで疲れてました。お化粧ノリが悪くって、いつもは洗顔後のお肌にすーっとなめらかにすべるファンデーションも、なんだか毛穴が目立っていたことを思い出します。

そういえば、肩こりも気になっていました。乾燥してる職場でパソコンに向かいながら、一瞬、「温泉」の幻影を見たりしていたっけ・・・などと思い起こしてみたりします。私、疲れていたんだ~と、あらためて現状を理解したり。

理想的な社会人VSダメダメ社会人

新人さんも、そうじゃない方も、長い会社生活の中で、寝坊や遅刻を経験していますよね。「私はそんなにだらしなくない。寝坊も遅刻も経験が無い」と感じた方、申し訳ありません・・・。そうですよね。少し大げさな表現かもしれませんが、「寝坊」ほど社会人にとってタブーなものはないと感じている方は多いでしょう。

そういえば、遅刻してくるヒトの中には、酒臭いヒトがいます。服がよれよれしてて、「あんた、昨晩どこに寝てたの?」みたいな方もいらっしゃいますね。そうです、寝坊といえば、だらしないイメージ。悪口になってしまいますが、この際「だらしない」とあえて表現しましょう。人間的にちょっと信用できないみたいな? うーん、そこまで言うのもどうかと思いますが、「寝坊」はやはりどちらかというと悪いイメージがつきまとうようです。

そのとっさの一言に性格が出る?!「お寝坊社会人」の言い訳を考える

とっさの対応時に出る一言には、発言者の性格・人柄がかなりストレートに出ています。コンビニエンスストアで販売しているような心理学をやさしく書かれた書籍などにも、嘘の見破り方として「とっさの対応」が紹介されています。

思いがけない言葉をかけてみて相手の反応を見るといった方法があるようです。とっさの一言には、その発言者の日頃の考え方や能力などが出てしまうため、寝坊の常習犯である社会人さんは、寝坊してしまったことで引き起こされる遅刻などの「言い訳」をいつも考え、ストックしているのではないでしょうか。言い訳をいくつか用意しておいて、とっさの時に活用する・・・というのも賢い社会人の手段になるかもしれません。
 
さて、遅刻の言い訳について社会人にインタビューしていくと、寝坊というマナー違反の際の理由づけには共通項があることが判明しました。それは、「寝坊であると悟られないようにすることが重要だ」ということです。ここに無難な言い訳ベスト3を発表します。

  • 第1位:体調が悪くて遅れてしまいました。
  • 第2位:電車(バス)が遅れました。
  • 第3位:申し訳ありません、ちょっと・・(むにゃむにゃ)

長く社会人をやっていると、いろいろな知恵が身につくものですが、これなどはよくあるパターンです。上司に報告する時、すぐその場を立ち去ることができるように、無難な答え方を考えているわけです。

入社1年目の教科書
入社1年目の教科書

posted with amazlet at 14.03.13
ダイヤモンド社 (2012-09-01)
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まとめ:社会人の寝坊はタブー。でも、ついやってしまったら・・・

社会人にとって寝坊による遅刻はタブーと言えますが、長い人生、避けて通れないこともあるでしょう。そんな時のために覚えておきたいことは、申し訳なさそうな態度と無難な言い訳が大切だということです。上司にお詫びしてからすぐに仕事にとりかかれるように、いつもより入念に薄化粧に仕上げることは忘れないでください。

ぼさぼさ髪ですっぴんのまま、はあはあ言いながら駆け込むのは、笑われるだけなら良いですが、後々まで何か言われそうで怖いです。くれぐれも、薄化粧で申し訳なさそうな態度。無難な言い訳をし、一礼をしてから席に着きましょう。幸運を祈ります。

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